Dan Nitro Clark

    I had an interesting interchange with a young friend of mine about whether or not to use steroids.  I say young – he’s young to me, but not a kid.  I believe he’s in his late 20’s.  Not that I’m old like father time.  Hell, I just had my 45 birthday… but I’m wise in years of experience.  I’ve seen a lot in my life compared to those who’ve been submerged in suburbia.  Not that’s it’s a bad thing.  It just wasn’t, isn’t my path.  I was shoved into the world – as a young kid we rarely stayed in one place more than a year or two.  Well, this friend of mine — we’ll call him "Rick" — has been asking me a lot about steroids.  He’s obsessed with them and what he thinks they will do for him and how they will change his life.  Just recently he said, "I’d love to be able to bench 500 pounds and scream and throw it on the rack, like you did when you were Nitro on "American Gladiators."   The kids a smart kid he read my memoir Gladiator A True Story of Roids, Rage and Redemption a few times.  

I have to say… it feels odd now to be admired for being a Hercules who hoisted up heavy weights.  But at the time it meant everything.  I realize now it means nothing.  But what’s different?  What’s changed and how do I share this with my young friend?  The best I could come up with is:    I wish I would’ve spent more time building a life back then my body when I was young — because eventually your body will fail you — but the life you build around will only continue to grow.  I really hope he understands me.    It took my a lot of years to realize that: Steroids and drugs are a hopeless reach for happiness.  Because you’ll never be big enough or strong enough or high enough to fill what is missing inside.  Eventually you’ll have to learn the process of building a life, and realize that the honey, the reward, comes from putting your nose to the grindstone and walking toward a place you want to go.   I dedicated my book to: My son, my family, and that bright shining smile of nieces and nephews that became more important than the roar of the crowd.   That distinction has made all the difference.    Even though he wasn’t asking me for advice, I say this to my young friend: Build your life from the inside out.  Know that your enough.  And realize that where ever you go there you will be. 

Be Brilliant,

Dan Clark

Technorati Tags: Dan Clark, Nitro, Dan Nitro Clark, American Gladiators, Steroids, Roids, Should I take steroids, Gladiators, Gladiator a true story of roids,